This is an excerpt (quoted in black) of Tough Times, by Hariati Azizan, The Star, 22 March 2009. Meanings of the vocabularies are taken from Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary (in green and blue).
Title: A blessing in disguiseblessing (n) - something that is good or helpfule.g. Lack of traffic is one of the blessings of country life in Malaysia.disguise (n)- a thing that you wear or use to change your appearance so that people do not recognize youe.g. The detective disguises himself as a woman in the investigation.a blessing in disguise (idiom)- something that seems to be a problem at first, but that has good results in the endWhy me? The question plagued Daryl Wong endlessly when he was retrenched from his job with an American multinational company during the 2002 ecomonic slump.
e.g. The unsolved problem of the project plagued him endlessly, contributing to his sleepless nights during his project development period."At first I panicked as I was worried about how I was going to pay my bills. Then self-doubt crept in. 'What is wrong with me? Am I not good enough? I have a Masters, so why was I retrenched?' I became very depressed," recalls the 39-year-old.
As his depression deepened, he says, he holed himself at
home, hiding from his family and friends.
e.g. The failure of his project haunted him, to the extend that he holed himself at home, reluctant to meet his family and friends.Then one day, he woke up and realised that he needed to snap out of his despair.
I also decided that it was time for me to take the plunge into a career
that I've always been intereted in, even though I has no relevant experience.
plunge in something/ plunge into something (v)- to start doing something in an enthusiatic way, especially without thinking carefullyabout what you are doingSo, although he originally went into another high-powered corporate job with
a fat pay cheque, he found that he had lost his passion for the rat race and its trappings.
lose passion (v)
-not interested in
fat pay cheque (n)
- getting good salary
rat race (n)
- the way of life of people living and working in a large city, where people compete in an aggressive way with each other in order to be more successful, earn more money, etc.
trappings (n)
- an unpleasant situation
Now I am earning less but I feel happier as I no longer desire expensive and luxurious things. I lead a simple life now. I also get more job satisfaction because I feel like I'm doing something worthwhile to help other people and not just making money.
A good line to give opinion.
I lead a simple and yet satisfying life.
Elaborations: earning less but feel happier, more job satisfaction, doing something worthwhile
"I quit my teaching job and applied for a job at a woman's magazine. It was early 1997, so my father blew his top. He scolded me for making such a reckless decision at a bad economic time. Sure enough, nine months later, the magazine folded and I found myself without a job," she recalls.
blow one's top (v)
- to get very angry
The year 1997 was a year which Malaysia faced its economic crisis, many lost their job at that time. The narrator's father got very angry with her, as a teacher is considered as a secured job and has very good welfare.
I swallowed my pride and moved back home to cut costs. I remember the disappointed look my father used to give me but I just held on. Luckily, I
got a lot of support of my mother and sisters.
Sanchita admits that she was lucky she had no financial commitments when she was retrenched and was able to use her 'hiatus' from the workforce to explore herself.
hiatus (n) [hai-EI-tes] - a pause in activity when nothing happens
When a person has no financial commitments, he/she does not need the money urgently, as no one is dependent on him/her. A person which has family dependent on him/her is said to have financial commitments.
Commitments can be used on other aspects, such as family or partners.
When I think about it, I could have gone down a completely different road in life. It was all glamorous at the magazine and I was enjoying the high life. But when it was cut short, I had to re-adjust.
The narrator was enjoying her good life and suddenly it ends unexpectedly. She is expecting something different from her current life, had she had taken another way of life. Possibly indicicating that she might have strayed away from the life now. Now I lead a simple life because my work is half voluntary. Although we are funded by an international humanitarian group, the pay is just enough to sustain our daily expenses. But I have never felt more contended.
Yet another good line to express ourselves: e.g. I have never felt more contended, by doing the voluntary work.
Another man in his early 50s, meanwhile is just happy that he survived the down-turn.
Bad situation can be paraphrased as down-turn. Here it means that he is happy that he lived through that bad period of his life. I did not become depressed like most people but I became angry and vengeful, which almost destroyed me and my family.
vengeful (v) - showing a desire to punish somebody who has harmed you
Well... depressed is not good, as you would not want to do anything. But vengeful will be too aggressive that you might have hurt others.
I was inexperienced in business and over-ambitious. I didn't want to start small. I wanted a grand restaurant and spent most of my savings, including the severance pay I got, on the renovation and other frills for the restaurant.
frills (n)- things that are not necessary but are added to make something more atractive or interestingThis paragraph elaborates what caused the down-turn of a restauranteur. over-ambitious, doesn't want to start samll, grand, spent most of saving, spend on frillsHowever, the recession, in addition to the competition, made it difficult for his restaurant business to take off.
take off (v)- an idea, product, et cetera to become sucessful or popular very quickly or suddenlyThis rationalises what made his business failed....in addition to...made it difficult for...The nasi lemak business slowly grew and a few years later he decided to try his hand at the food business again. Now, he is a proud owner of a modest food stall.
The business of the subject is getting better. He wanted to try something new (in this context, back to the food business he failed earlier). In the end, he is a successful owner.It was a hard experince but I learnt a lot from the recession, not only about business but also about life. I learnt to be a better husband and man. I owe a lot to my wife for standing by me through it all, even when I made bad decisions that almost detroyed our lives.
A good line to elaborate your experience and gratitudes, with examples. The 'destroyed our lives' in the last line can be paraphrased as 'ruined our lives'.For trainer Hui Shan, 43, getting retrenched from her management job in 2000 also led her to discover her real passion and purpose in life.
This can be used as a good starting line in an essay.The experience led her to re-evaluate her goals in life.
Use this when you would like to describe about the decision to change one's life.Hui Shan learnt the hard way that although it is easy to start a business, sustaining it is a different matter. With a full-time job, Hui Shan was not able to commit fully to her business. Consequently, her business flopped and she decided to focus on her full-time job.
Consequently = as the result
flop = to be a complete failureWhen you would like to express the hardship of an experience, you can use 'learn in a hard way'. Sustaining something would mean keep something running, in a continous manner. Here we see yet another example of commitment, a commitment to job.This time round, she decided to find her real niche in business and put every effort into making her endeavour success.
niche (n) [nish, nich]- a comfortable or suitable role, job, way of life, etce.g. He eventually found his niche in sports journalism.endeavour (n) [in-DEE-ver]-an attempt to do something, especially something new or difficulte.g. Please make every endeavour to arrive on time.e.g. The manager is expected to use his or her best endeavours to promote the artist's career.You can use this line to express your decisions.I have decided to put every effort into making my endeavour success.They were happy with my work and subsequently I got some paid assignments writing more manuals and conducting business and soft skills training from them.
Subsequently = nextI know I cannot compete with the big companies, so I decided to venture into this sector which they are not interested in. At the same time, it allows me to give back to society because I can help empower disadvantaged people, like single mothers, and help them to get a better life.
to venture into = to go intoto give back to = to repayto help empower disadvantage people - to support the under-privileged people, to give them power, to help themA good line to use to express your ambitions.Currently, Hui Shan is developing a community website and an entrepreneur training programme to reach out to people who are interested in learning more about small business management.
to reach out to somebody- to show somebody that you are interested in them and or want to help them